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Women are still discovering-the hard way-just how difficult and unpredictable child custody cases can be. The first and most comprehensive book of its kind, this is a complete insider’s guide filled with crucial advice from judges, lawyers, therapists, and mothers who have experienced this challenging legal process. It is designed for women at every stage of divorce and covers a wide range of legal strategies, as well as financial and psychological issues. This upda… More >>
#1 by Anonymous on April 2, 2010 - 7:00 pm
What Every Woman Should Know About Divorce and Custody by Gayle Rosenwald Smith, J.D. and Sally Abrahms, is an essential resource for women in the process of going through a divorce, as well as for those contemplating divorce and even post-divorce, when custody and child support issues continue to resurface. It tells it like it is, in a clear, concise manner. This book will be a real eye-opener to those entering the process, and provide new insights to those immersed in, and even theoretically beyond the process. Many lawyers treat the divorce process like an on-going game, which the legal system enables. This process can victimize women, in particular. The best defense a woman can have is to be well-informed and well-prepared for the battle, which many (ex)spouses choose to wage. Every woman involved in a divorce, regardless of her lawyers ability and reputation, owes it to herself to become educated about the process, the potential problems, and helpful strategies. That is the essence of What Every Woman Should Know About Divorce and Custody offers. If there is one book that a woman going through a divorce needs, this is it. This book will likely become a repeatedly consulted reference throughout most womens divorce and custody process.
Rating: 5 / 5
#2 by Anonymous on April 2, 2010 - 7:30 pm
This is the most thorough and informative book on divorce issues that I have read. As a divorce attorney, I am always curious to know what other attorneys are thinking. Ms. Smith’s perspective and commentary mirror much of my own experiences and conclusions. The book is easy to read and filled with relevant, realistic examples and practical advice. I highly recommend this book to both nonlawyers, who have a reason to learn about this subject and to lawyers so they can refine and expand their knowedge of the divorce process.
Rating: 5 / 5
#3 by Rebecca L. Patton on April 2, 2010 - 10:28 pm
I didn’t know where to even begin the divorce/custody process, but this book gave me the confidence to make the first appointment with the lawyer. It helped me not feel like such a “victim” and I felt much more knowledgeable and prepared. I didn’t feel so much like I was at risk for being “led by the nose” by my lawyer, and it was indispensable in helping me stand up to the tactics of my husband. Everyone woman in a divorce situation should read this, especially those with children.
Rating: 4 / 5
#4 by C. L. Michaud on April 2, 2010 - 10:47 pm
I agree that this book is about dealing with a custody battle. If you have children, and are thinking about getting divorced, I recommend you read “Divorce Busters” because the custody process is truly horrible, and because there are a lot of marriages out there that could and should be saved. Unfortunately mine was not one of those, and this book has been invaluable in guiding me through the process intelligently. There are few underhanded tricks listed, which I rather approve of (although it does mention that you should interview the town’s “Shark” lawyer before your husband does so that he can’t hire him) Just a LOT of good advice! Read this before you choose your lawyer, and you will get a lot more bang for the considerable bucks you are likely to be investing. Read this BEFORE you leave your family home if possible! But do read it; you won’t be sorry.
Rating: 5 / 5
#5 by Anonymous on April 2, 2010 - 11:48 pm
I am soon to be beginning the process. I will be initiating it. I read this book to gain insite into a woman’s perspective and possible strategies.
I guess if you haven’t read or learned much, this book can have some tremendous value. If you’re somewhat knowledgeable about the process, it is good, but not the end all.
One thing to remember, only 1-2% of all divorce cases are tried in court. Yes, judges approve them, but the real work is with the lawyers.
It’s clearly worth it price.
Rating: 4 / 5